"100 Simple secrets of successful people"
1 Competence starts with feeling competent.
2 It's not how hard you try. The purpose of what you do is to make progress, not just to expend yourself.
3 Creativity comes from within.
4 Take small victories.
5 You can't force yourself to like broccoli.
6 Resist the urge to be average.
7 There is plenty of time. Age is unrelated to commitment to their job and their level of job performance.
8 It's never just one thing.
9 Don't keep fighting your first battle.
10 Change is possible, not easy.
11 Seek input from your opposites.
12 Write down the directions.
13 Anticipate irrationality.
14 The best defense is to listen.
15 Winners are made, not from.
16
Do things in order. Stepping out of order is ultimately frustrating and
futile. Take your goal one at a time, and appreciate the process as you
move forward.
17 Get experience any way you can.
18
Self-motivation works once. Success comes not from self-motivation
tricks and declaration of desired outcome but from a steady, informed
effort at progress.
19 Speak slowly. make understanding.
20 Where you stand depends on where you look.
21 Use your own self-interest.
22 Remember who you are and where you are.
23
Negotiate with confidence, or don't. The less confidence you have in
yourself , the faster you will give up trying ti get what you want.
24 Volunteer to feel better.
25 Remember the task, forget the rankings.
26 Avoid the second-guess paralysis.
27 Seek a tall plateau, not the peak.
28 Play and odds. The more you try, the greater your opportunity to benefit from a lucky outcome.
29 The past is not the future.
30 Get a good night's sleep. It is food for your brain.
31 It starts and ends with you. Prepare yourself for the potential opportunities in the future.
32 Notice pattern. Take time to consider patterns in your world that you've never thought about before.
33 Efficiency in everything.
34 Tomorrow will be a better day. What do you need to do to get what you want?
35
Lessons can't threaten.When you try to teach anyone something new, you
have to make it clear from outset that the destination is someplace we'd
all like to go.
36 Success is formula, not fantasy. People who
approach things with order, common sense, consistency, and persistence
will ultimately succeed.
37 You need to know more than just how talented you are. "faith"
38
Role models are not one-size-fits-all. Choose as your role model
someone who has accomplished something you can accomplish and something
you want to accomplish.
39 Learn from losses.
40 Embrace work : It may have to last forever.
41 Exercise and eat right.
42 Boredom is the enemy.
43 Be clear about your role in the outcome. "Victory has a thousand fathers; defeat is an orphan"#Kennedy
44 Make change count.
45
Listening is more than not talking. Active listening, investing
ourselves in others are saying, is the only way we can learn from others
and adapt what we have to say to correspond to the others perspective.
46 Take off your blinders. (Stereotype)
47
You'll get what you afraid of. Sometimes we will succeed and sometimes
fail frees us to pursue achievements and to spend time to thinking about
what we can do instead of what we can't.
48 Think about who you ought to be.
49 Leadership is contagious.
50 Want support? Deserve it. You have to let them see how hard you are working long before the promotion as well as after it.
51 You will give up faster if you're not in control.
52 Life is not zero-sum game.
53 You don't have to get straight A's Anymore. You need to invest the effort for yourself, not to win approval from others.
54 Whet your appetite for success. (Growing motivation)
55 Remember the difference between you and everybody else.
56 Your work and home lives must fit together.
57 Nobody wins without loser.
58 Tell clean jokes. In the workplace, use the positive humor freely and negative humor not at all.
59 Don't want everything.
60 Look for value in the people around you.
61 Get your motivation where you can find it.
62 Be an expert.
63 Failure is not trying.
64 You are not in this alone. We have met people who protected us and taught us.
65
Your goals are a living thing. Keep your goals far enough away that you
need to keep trying but close enough that you can someday reach them.
66
Avoid roller-coaster emotions. A successful life is not to be found in
one exciting day but in a steady, productive, fulfilling career.
67 Care. Lives, concerns, interests, and well-being.
68 You can't be persistent without perspective.
69 Changing doesn't change you.
70 It might get worse before it gets better.
71
If you don't believe, no one else will. The people around you will most
likely mirror your feeling-showing you fear when you show fear and
confidence when you demonstrate confidence. You can't rely on others to
convince you because they will rely on you to convince them.
72 You'll work harder if you feel wanted.
73 Don't talk to yourself. A presentation is the best expression of your ideas.
74 Seek coherence and congruence.
75 If you doubt, you're out.
76 Always think about what's next.
77 Value practical knowledge. Learning the aspect about the thing you do.
78 See the risk in doing nothing.
79 Face conflict head-on. Discuss conflicts between work life and home life.
80 Money isn't everything.
81 Be Realistic about yourself.
82 Find your own past.
83 Own what to do. You do it there you do it well.
84 Be honest for your future.
85 You need to know what are you looking for. Who you are, what you can do, and what you want to do.
86 Don't forget packaging.
87 Learn to lead yourself.
88 A victory at all costs is not a victory.
89 People who have it right work harder to make it better.
90 Don't run the wrong direction just because you're near the finish line.
91
Hope spring internal. The beat information is your own approach, and it
starts with two simple beliefs; you can get the job done, and you can
show others that you can get the job done.
92 Thinks as if others can read your mind.
93 You'll get knocked down and then get back up.
94 Keep your goals where you can see them.
95 Don't settle. Never stop thinking about what you nee to do to love what to do,
96 What is the point. Having a purpose in everything you do makes everyday valuable and every outcome.
97 Win your own respect first.
98 Your goals must engage all of you.
99 Take action.
100
Only you can say if this is a world you can succeed in. The difference
is not the world itself, The difference is how they view the world.
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